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Marriage. The topics that people in young ages find it to be interesting things to talk about. When we talk about marriage, things that pop up in our mind is the happiness being with someone we love, walking through the life as long as being with our partner is somewhat enjoyable. However, all and all, its not about that sweet things about marriage, its beyond than that. Marriage is not a simple thing, preparation before that is more vital than the marriage itself. Marriage can prevent from zina but ia not only that, there is more reason to get marriage. Don't make our mind too rigid to think that marriage is all about being happy.

The cost need to be face for the marriage, before and after marriage should be counted. Such a very young ages to make the topic of marriage as a big issue in our living life before the right time. I think it is such a waste of time, I am talking from my previous experience. There is more other important things to think of instead of burdening our mind with marriage things. Somehow also, we think a lot about this things without knowing that people around us such as family and friends is the peoples who need the most of our love. Allah should be place at the first place.

Because the time may not be the right time, and someone we meet may not be the right man. Is not wrong to fall in love or have a crush on someone, perhaps he/she didn't know we have feelings for them. Let it be, Allah knows it. Sometimes we have to sacrifice what we want for the sake of Allah, for Allah's redha is what we want the most throughout this life onwards. Keep it to the halal one, make yourself expensive and have your own principles so that we will not drown along the way to meet Him. Nobody say it is easy, though this is our jihad and mujahadah to fight for His jannah. In shaa Allah. Is more appropriate to think about other things for now. Allah knows the best who we are going to be married with, right? So leave it all to Allah. :)

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